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Cocktails with Belle: A Women's History Month Celebration (03.20.13)


Bellel on The Root Live (02.19.13)

Belle visits VH1's Big Morning Buzz Again! (10.17.12)

Belle visits VH1's Big Morning Buzz Again! (10.17.12) 

Black Enterprise dubs Belle "Belle of the Boardroom"  for Conversations with Belle: Careers (9.26.12)


Belle hosts "An Evening with Iyanla Vanzant" to celebrate her new show "Fix My Life" on OWN (09.12.12)


 

Hosting GAIN Your Match at EMF (July 6-8). Go to ilovegain.com to find your perfect scent.

 

Belle visits Big Morning Buzz (Vh1) 6.21.12

PHOTO GALLERY: Brunch with Belle (6.17.12)


 Belle visits PIX11 in NYC  (05.04.12)

Belle visits Dr. Drew on HLN (05.03.12) 

 
Belle visits The Anderson Cooper Show (03.12.12)

PHOTO GALLERY: Cocktails with Belle 01.10.13, Ludlow Manor (NYC)

PHOTO EXHIBIT: Her Word As Witness: Women Writers of the African Diaspora

Belle on VH1's Big Morning Buzz 

ABIB Book Signing @Sky Room (NYC)

Belle on The Today Show

 

Belle on HLN discussing dating 

 

Belle on HLN discussing Oprah Winfrey

  Brooklyn News 12 names Belle the "Best of Brooklyn"

Belle on Fox, Dating Challenge 

Check out PHOTOS from JI Group presents Cocktails with Belle, Oct. 24, NYC  

  

Belle featured on "Being Terry Kennedy" (courtesy of BET)

   

Belle featured on Let's Talk About Pep (Vh1)

Belle breaks down dating expectations on NBC4

 


Belle breaks down her transition from blogger to author 

 

    Check out PHOTOS from X-Rated Fusion Liqueur celebrates A BELLE IN BROOKLYN'S nationwide book tour.

 



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    Oct172012

    Clutch: Scandal Exploits Black Women, Huh?

    Over time, I’ve noticed that We the Blacks, collectively, have an annoying habit of criticizing so many things to death. We — some, not all — can look at something that is widely perceived as fair and decent (or at least way better than he standard reality TV fare we’re mostly offered) and then stare it down, scour, and overanalyze it until we can’t see any good in it, only the problems galore. It’s not constructive criticism; it’s just complaining.

    Last night, I checked into The Root for my digest of what’s new in politico world and found more complaining. This time is was from Tom Burrell, a 45-year vet of the advertising industry, moaning about — out of all the things actually worthy of complaint on TV —   Scandal. Burrell told The Root:

    I’ve got major problems with Scandal. It comes dressed up and masqueraded as something new, but Scandal is basically a continuing perpetuation of the stereotype of a black woman whose libido and sexual urges are so pronounced that even with an education and a great job, and all these other things, she can’t control herself.

    He adds:

    But the message that is really being delivered is that no matter how much education you get and how much power you get, you’ve still got that “around the way girl” in you. It’s basically saying that black women are innately, inherently, hot to trot. He doesn’t seduce her. She seduces him.

    Are we watching the same show?

    I watch Scandal — over and over and over — because I see a positive image of a professional Black woman. Pope is a smart, respected, relied upon, fully (and wonderfully)–clad, quick-witted, shrewd, compassionate, well-connected businesswoman … who is also flawed. That makes for good TV. She’s got mystery, back story — though I can’t find any evidence of “around the way girl” so far — and in some instances, has questionable ethics. She’s is multi-layered, multi-dimensional and yes, she’s even an adult woman who has a sex drive, God help her, and she’s not afraid to indulge it (even if admittedly, it wasn’t the best choice of man).

    I’ve heard the complaints from Black women about their representations in media, and I’ve penned my fair share of stories on this topic to add to the heap. I recognize the importance of positive images and the destructive nature of negative ones, but it’s unnecessary and just not so entertaining to trade in one caricature of what Black women are — always loud, aggressive, sex-obsessed — for another equally unrealistic one — always demure, passive, virginal.

    It’s a little weird to me that Burrell picked up Pope’s sexcapades when it’s not even a present part of the life of her character, who is trying to do better.

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