‪‪This the latest update in the ongoing saga that AskFM and Twitter users have deemed, aptly, #BCPills. A quick recap if this is your introduction to this year-plus long saga: Guy is paying for BC pills for his lady, discovers she isn’t taking them. Confronts her. She’s four months pregnant. It all goes downhill ...

My ex broke up my last relationship, but I forgave him and we became cordial. When we were together, he treated me like crap, but in the spirit of forgiveness, I moved on and told him we could be friends but we were never getting back together. He kept spending money on me, insisting that ...

Remember that time I went to San Jose for the 10th BlogHer convention and I interviewed Kerry Washington? You do?! Great  There’s video. Scroll down. You don’t? A quick refresher. (You can read the full story here): Shortly after I get settled backstage on Saturday, in walks Kerry. . Frankly, I wasn’t expecting her yet. Most ...

  Last week, seemingly like everyone else, I was discussing the death of Michael Brown in Ferguson, Mo. In a private email chain, I shared some of my un-PC thoughts about Ferguson Police Chief Tom Jackson’s press conference, in which Jackson alleged that Brown had robbed a convenience store prior to his life-ending encounter with Officer ...

My man [and I] got in a heated argument and [it] got pretty loud. Fine. The next day, I was looking for my phone and found it in a weird spot. It smelled like [urine]! I asked my boyfriend about it and he admitted that he [urinated] on my phone because he was mad. Yes!! ...

  TO READ PART I & II of #DNADad STORY, CLICK HERE After the last update, many of you rightly guessed that wasn’t the end of  ”Bio Dad”. He’s back— and he’s a bigger ass than anyone could have guessed. The reason he doesn’t want anything to do with his son? “It’s not part of ...

NOTE: This story was updated on Aug. 04, 2014. Please scroll to read the latest update.  NOTE 2: This story was updated AGAIN on Aug. 15, 2014. CLICK HERE    In many ways, I’ve learned to detach from some of the hard scenarios that come up on Ask.FM. It’s a defense mechanism to keep me from ...

  The season finale of Power aired last night. Overall? Eh… solid. Not astounding, but re-watchable for sure. Episode 7 was the best of the season. Without further adieu, my running thoughts on last night’s “Power” finale (in almost chronological order):   *Ghost is haunted by Rolla’s killing. The irony. Get it? Ghost? Haunted?  Oh, ...

I went to see “Get On Up” on opening night. I usually avoid opening weekends unless I can catch a matinee or a non-”Black” theatre. (I love Black folk, but the stereotype about us talking during films is true. We’re a call and response people.) But I worked on the social media promotions campaign, and ...

Seven years ago, I was invited to a rooftop soirée, an industry- only event for women. It was a Who’s Who of industry professionals. I knew their names and faces. They didn’t know mine. A friend and her friends were annoyed by the prevailing idea of women in “the industry.” They were the types that ...