Dear Demetria: I did a big chop yesterday. I sent a picture to my live-in fiance, who is the father to my 2-year-old daughter. He responded that I looked crazy and that he doesn’t like short hair. When I got home, he asked me if I was going for the lesbian look. I asked him if I ...

I wake up the other morning, and head to the bathroom, because I’m human and that’s what most of us do. The night before, I stayed up til 2AM dyeing my hair “natural black”, which for anyone whose ever dyed their hair black at home knows that really means “jet black.” And then I twisted ...

Ugh. Because some humans are absolutely awful. Yesterday, the Huffington Post ran an article, “Solange’s Bridal Afro Upsets Beauty Standards” on the backlash about Solange Knowles’s choice to wear he hair the way she always wears it and the way it grown from her head, on her wedding day. Apparently, this was bad. Writer Kadia Blagrove compiled a ...