My Evening with Zane, Talking Sex Addiction, G-Spots & Panty Dropping

My Evening with Zane, Talking Sex Addiction, G-Spots & Panty Dropping

On September 18, I met up with Zane at The London hotel in New York City to discuss her latest project, the film adaption of “Addicted”. Admittedly, I was a little nervous, which is

Ask Demetria: Is a BF Responsible for Covering Emergency Bills?

Ask Demetria: Is a BF Responsible for Covering Emergency Bills?

Dear Demetria: My best friend, who lives with her boyfriend, got into a car accident. Via mass email, she asked all her friends for money to help with the expensive repair. I said to her

Ask Demetria: How Do I Get My Lady to Trim the Hair ‘Down There’?

Ask Demetria: How Do I Get My Lady to Trim the Hair ‘Down There’?

Dear Demetria: Is it polite for a man to ask a lady to trim herself “down there”? She really likes me to give her oral, but it’s difficult with so much growth. I’ve hinted about it, but

The Root: “Everything You Were Afraid to Ask About Love”

The Root: “Everything You Were Afraid to Ask About Love”

  If you ask Demetria Lucas what she thinks, be prepared for a jolt of raw reality. For the past few years life coach Lucas has dished out advice on everything from bad BFFs, falling for

Ask Demetria: “I Didn’t Buy Her Kids Dinner. Was I Wrong?”

Ask Demetria: “I Didn’t Buy Her Kids Dinner. Was I Wrong?”

  There’s been a Facebook photo floating around lately in which a man details an odd occurrence on a date:   I have no idea which group was asked this query, and in all my

NEW in Essence: “My Boss Saw Me Naked!”

NEW in Essence: “My Boss Saw Me Naked!”

  Alicia* called her boyfriend to tell him she wanted out of their relationship. After all, she was a married mother of three and had only taken a lover to get revenge on her husband, who

  • My Evening with Zane, Talking Sex Addiction, G-Spots & Panty Dropping
  • Ask Demetria: Is a BF Responsible for Covering Emergency Bills?
  • Ask Demetria: How Do I Get My Lady to Trim the Hair ‘Down There’?
  • The Root: “Everything You Were Afraid to Ask About Love”
  • Ask Demetria: “I Didn’t Buy Her Kids Dinner. Was I Wrong?”
  • NEW in Essence: “My Boss Saw Me Naked!”

Latest Posts

My Evening with Zane, Talking Sex Addiction, G-Spots & Panty Dropping

On September 18, I met up with Zane at The London hotel in New York City to discuss her latest project, the film ...

Ask Demetria: Is a BF Responsible for Covering Emergency Bills?

Dear Demetria: My best friend, who lives with her boyfriend, got into a car accident. Via mass email, she asked all ...

Ask Demetria: How Do I Get My Lady to Trim the Hair ‘Down There’?

Dear Demetria: Is it polite for a man to ask a lady to trim herself “down there”? She really likes me to give ...

The Root: “Everything You Were Afraid to Ask About Love”

  If you ask Demetria Lucas what she thinks, be prepared for a jolt of raw reality. For the past few years ...

Ask Demetria: “I Didn’t Buy Her Kids Dinner. Was I Wrong?”

  There’s been a Facebook photo floating around lately in which a man details an odd occurrence on a date: ...

NEW in Essence: “My Boss Saw Me Naked!”

  Alicia* called her boyfriend to tell him she wanted out of their relationship. After all, she was a married ...

AskFM UPDATE (Again): The (Almost) Complete #BCPills Saga

  ‪‪This the latest update in the ongoing saga that AskFM and Twitter users have deemed, aptly, #BCPills. ...

5 Lessons in Dealing With a Crazy Ex

My ex broke up my last relationship, but I forgave him and we became cordial. When we were together, he treated me ...

VIDEO: Belle x Kerry Washington at BlogHer

Remember that time I went to San Jose for the 10th BlogHer convention and I interviewed Kerry Washington? You do?! ...

Black and Blue: Officer Sees Both Sides in the Michael Brown Shooting

  Last week, seemingly like everyone else, I was discussing the death of Michael Brown in Ferguson, Mo. In a ...